Lessons to Learn

Good morning Youngen!

Today I write to you because I care for you to know all that I have learned.
All of our experiences are LESSONS.. see it that way and you will ALWAYS be ok.
If you really think about it, all of your days, your months, birthdays, are all moments whether good, bad, great, amazing, terrible, horrendous, bright, dark, unique, basic, not basic, traumatic and they passed! You got over it!! And the ONLY thing you can do is LEARN from it.

You can’t go back in time.
You probably wish you could, right?! You wish you could REDO that moment because it was soooo good OR you wish you could so you could TAKE IT BACK. You probably did or said the wrong thing and regret it or you hurt someone’s feelings or you wish you could’ve said THIS instead of that!…..

Yeah, I’ve been there, MANY MANY TIMES and you know what, I STILL DO! I still FYCK Up with my words, not so much my actions. I work hard every day to get better and that’s the KEY, recognize what you did, and become better by apologizing… I know that can be hard too! And I STILL struggle with this too!! You may be like, ‘Ms. Uh.. you’re an adult! You still don’t have it figured out?!’ and my answer is, there is no ‘deadline’ on figuring it ALL out. Remember that!

As an adult, after 50 years of living, I have learned a lot from all of my experiences whether good, bad, great, amazing, terrible, horrendous, bright, dark, unique, basic, not basic, or traumatic and aim to be better everyday, better than teen me, better than 20 year old me, 30 year old me, better than yesterday me… you get the picture!

This blog will contain many posts where I share many of my experiences. And they are A LOT! If you count 50 years… that’s 18,262 days!! What the?! I just googled that and I’m amazed… I am amazed because I am still here.. many of the things I have been through left me questioning whether or not it was even worth continuing on with my life…. but I am still here and I want that to be the biggest lesson you learn.

The lessons posted will be categorized to help you with whatever you need assistance with, like love, self-esteem, friendships, school, parents, college and I would love to get your perspective and hopefully share your story.

I welcome you to share any of the posts with anyone you believe can be helped by my experiences. Anything worth learning from is worth sharing and should never be a secret. Remember that!

Let the learning begin!